To Be Or Not To Be, That Is The Question

  In the words of Keyshia Cole, "I changed my mind, I don't want you no more". I feel like I've only just finished editing my last post about re-entering the dating pool, only for me to decide "computer says no". In the past couple months I've been on a few dates and talked to …

Fall For Your Type

So it's that time of the year, I'm dating again. Yayy...not! I'm the original anti-dater; I'm just too awkward, it feels like a job interview and my anxiety is crippling. So then why am I subjecting myself to this torture again? My desire to enter into the dating pool is for several reasons; my brother's …

How Do You Solve A Problem Like Maria – My Love Languages

How do you solve a problem like Maria? You give her the most amazing best friend, regular DBT meetings, compliant medication and regular orgasms; I have 2 out of 4 so the working out is there but there's no answer. So how else do you solve a problem like Maria...you love her in the way she …

Buss It Right Open For The Real One

So, I’m an early 20 something females, who borders on asexuality, occasionally repulsed by physical interactions but crave companionship and mental intimacy. However after a barren and pitiful romantic history, the commencing of a new season of Love Island and my brother’s imminent nuptials to a lovely amazing girl who is only 1 year older …

I Don’t Know If I Should Keep It Real & Tell You How I Feel

​Platonic as described its namesake is the truest form of love. I regard platonic love as the meeting of the minds. When I gain a new close friend I physically love that individual; I love our convos, memories and and inside jokes. I’ve previously stated that I have yet to fall in love, as the concept of …

The Nigger You With Ain’t Shit

​I can admit that in all honesty, I’ve never sincerely been in love. Although I’ve belligerently choked on tears over a boyfriend, I feel like I have never truthfully experienced true love. From what I've witnessed love results in irrational behaviour detrimental to the person's wellbeing. I’ve done stupid and illogical things to maintain a relationship, but I’ve …